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Thursday, March 27, 2008

Guys are complicated!!

I copied this from frenster, read and u'll find guys are just fine (may not be accurate as no one is equally same)

Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
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Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 6 guys..you're a HOE)
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Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
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Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him
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Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.
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Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
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Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
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Guys get jealous easily.
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Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
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Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
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Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
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A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
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Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
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Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
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Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.
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When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
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If a guy starts to talk seriously,listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.
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If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.
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When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
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When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.
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Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
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A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
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Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
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Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
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Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.
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If you are going to reject a guy,just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.
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Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
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When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

Monday, March 24, 2008

Love? Sex?

Love is like food
Sex is like EATING food
Love is like the ocean
Sex is like swimming or playing IN the ocean
Love is the food for the soul
Sex is the act of ABSORBING food !!

Love is the idea people have, Love is the POTENTIAL to make happy or to be made happy like a menu in a restaurant offers you the potential to eat and thus to satisfy your physical needs for vitamins, minerals and delicious energy resources for your daily work or activities. Love needs to be offered by BOTH in full and on a permanent basis FREE of even the slightest restrictions or limits what so ever, then love can flow in a truly loving relationship, Love always needs to flow in both directions simultaneously

If you have a container or bottle to store drinking water, the filling of the container makes no sense if the water never is emptied by proper usage. The container would overflow and hence the water be wasted
on the other side
If you only drink without ever replenishing the water, the container soon would be empty. The very same applies to love, love from man to woman needs to be given, while love from woman to man also is given at the very same time
Maybe one of the 2 "containers" the woman or the man is more empty
hence ONE of the 2 in a relationship may feel the need to first give before receiving

Being empty may never have to do with THAT particular relationship, a person, any person can be "burnt out" from work, from life, from any or all previous WRONG relationship as a loving partner you HAVE learn to FEEL if your partner is burnt out and be ready to HEAL his needs before being able to receive. Millions among us carry a serious damage in our hearts as a result of MANY incarnations with wrong partner or no partner at all or partner with selfish, non-loving attitude. Give and Take.


All the millions who LOVE water will fully agree that just looking at a picture of water or standing on the beach looking at the ocean, a clean lake or river or observing others having fun in the water is in absolutely NO way satisfying their appetite for being IN the water themselves.

Water is an exciting playground to have huge amount of fun all life time
Water has many most fruitful purposes
Water is needed to let fruits and food grow
Water is needed by all healing herbs, plants, flowers, vegetables, bushes and trees to grow and thus to provide us with food
Water is used for straight HEALING power and many therapeutic systems have been developed entirely with various water applications to heal even complex illnesses
Water is used for drinking
Water is used to refresh
Water is used for cleaning of inner and outer body

Water is LOVE
All above is valid for love as well
Love in ALL various ways is nutritious, a substantial factor in growth of inner satisfaction and joy of life and above all love is the single greatest healing power of all possible healing resources or pharmaceutical products
even more important. Love is available to all mankind, poor and rich, young or old, male and female, even all plants and all animal kingdom have love and can receive love or produce love for all and from all.

God is the source of love and all plants, all animals, all trees and all humans have a potential connection to God
How open that connection is depends solely on each individual, hence each of us decides how much love can flow or if no love at all can flow due to full denial of love

The flowing love only can heal
The flowing love only can make happy
hence
Love needs to be absorbed, touched, played with, enjoyed
any time
any place
FREE of even the smallest restrictions

ONLY a sincere and FULL YES to your partner can initiate the flow of love
once that magic flow of love has started, the healing from all damages resulting from our past experiences and crashes in life will begin the more often we love, the faster we are being healed and the healing takes place by giving AND receiving love. BOTH is of equal importance
We begin by establishing a balance between giving and receiving
hence those who have been on the recipient side more often than on the giving side may first reverse the flow by being given more until their inner balance is reestablished

sex requires love, the desire to BE happy PLUS the desire to MAKE happy
Love without sex is like food without eating it
Love without sex is like water without using it
hence
Love is the principle to create happiness and joy
Sex is the activity to really fulfill and realize the principle of Love

Saturday, March 22, 2008

DEB again~

This is my assignment bout DEB weaknesses, lol. i did it in BM. this is just my opinion with help from other sources.

DEB jelas menyatakan tujuannya untuk membasmi kemiskinan tanpa mengira kaum. Tetapi yang dilihat, yang dialami, yang didengar, yang dibaca kebanyakannya cuma membantu segelintir masyarakat sahaja. Itulah hakikatnya.

Soalnya bukan samada kita puas hati dengan DEB. Jika ditanya samada rakyat puas hati dengan subsidi petrol, ada yang puas, ada yang mahu lebih. Soalnya bukan masyarakat yang dibantu DEB, tetapi adakah DEB memanfaatkan ekonomi Malaysia. Kalau sekadar 20 tahun memberi spoon feed kerana dianggap masih bayi. Tetapi, sekarang sudah lebih 35 tahun. Nak spoonfed sampai bila? Bila boleh makan makanan dewasa?

Globalisasi memberi ancaman kepada Malaysia dan dalam 1-2 tahun, Malaysia harus membuka ekonomi dan mengurangkan dasar melindungi industri tempatan. Soalnya jika kos-kos akan meningkat dan untung semakin kecil, adakah kita masih nak bazirkan sumber alam Malaysia kepada segelintir masyarakat yang membazir dan tidak bertanggungjawab. Biar sumber dan subsidi diberi kepada mereka yang benar-benar memerlukannya, yang miskin dan papa. Biar dasar kerajaan ditumpukan kepada golongan miskin.

Malaysia bagaikan kapal yang semakin hari digoncang arus kuat globalisasi. Semakin hari, air memasuki kapal kerana rasuah, pembaziran dan pengendalian kerajaan yang tidak telus. Kapal Malaysia semakin diancam, inilah Malaysia untuk membuat tindakan tegas supaya Malaysia dapat bertanding dan mengecapi Wawasan 2020. Jika tidak, peluang kemakmuran semakin tipis bila semua sumber habis dikaut dan dibazirkan.

Jika Malaysia dibanding dengan negara-negara lain dalam dunia globalisasi ini, siapakah yang akan berdagang dengan Malaysia jika 70% aktiviti ekonomi sejenis atau lebih menonjolkan lagi segelintir masyarakat yang tamak haloba dan bukan semua warganegara yang layak menerima bantuan dari DEB.

DEB hanya untuk tempoh sementara untuk membina landasan bantuan dan pembangunan kaum Melayu dan Bumiputera terutamanya yang dikatakan miskin berbanding kaum-kaum lain. Ia dirancang selama hanya 20 tahun sejak dilancarkan pada tahun 1970. Rancangan DEB semoga kaum Melayu dan Bumiputera lain dapat berdikari setanding kaum lain selepas itu kerana DEB bukan satu-satunya kaedah pengagihan sumber yang efisyen. Ia tidak telus dan tidak menggalakkan penggunaan sumber yang efisyen. Tetapi, DEB sekarang sudah melepasi tempohnya dan digunakan oleh segelintir orang yang mencampuradukkan kuasa politik untuk mengaut kekayaan Malaysia dan merompak dari usaha-usaha dari kaum yang lain. Mereka diberi peluang, dan tidak dapat dinafikan ada yang menyalahgunakan peluang ini. Jika masih beterusan, mereka yang berpeluang mendapat insentif akan terus menagih peluang keemasan ini tanpa menghiraukan tujuan sebenar DEB membantu mereka yang lain. Maka disini, mereka yang diberi bantuan DEB yang kaya akan menjadi semakin kaya, yang miskin tetap miskin.

Inilah sebabnya Malaysia tidak mengecapi kejayaan seiring jiran Singapura. Negara-negara lain seperti India, Vietnam, Thailand kian maju bertanding dan mungkin akan melepasi tahap pembangunan Malaysia sebelum tahun 2020. Malah dikhuatiri Malaysia tidak dapat mencapai Wawasan 2020 jika diteruskan perkembangan ekonomi yang tidak rancak dan lemah seperti sekarang. Perkembangan di bawah 6% yang dialami 2-3 tahun sekarang sudah tentu tidak cukup untuk mencapai Wawasan 2020.

Inilah masanya untuk bangun dan menyahut cabaran untuk berdikari. Inilah masanya untuk tidak bergantung kepada susu ibu lagi. Sudah tiba masanya untuk makanan orang dewasa. Jika 20 tahun masa yang lama diberi insentif khas, berapakah lamanya lagi nak terus menjadi bayi? Sudah 36 tahun DEB bergiat menghabiskan kekayaan negara dengan tidak menggalakkan pertandingan yang sewajarnya.

Semua hak-hak kaum Melayu dan Bumiputera tetap di dalam Perlembagaan Malaysia tetapi bukan DEB. Kaum Melayu dan Bumiputera sepatutnya diberi peluang pendidikan dan biasiswa yang saksama dengan kaum lain tetapi tidak diberi kelulusan peperiksaan semata-mata dan kemasukan ke dalam universiti secara sebab digelar bumiputera. Kedudukan sultan dijaga tetapi kedudukan Perdana Menteri dan kabinet lain harus dibuka kepada mereka yang lebih berwibawa dan mampu digelar pemimpin tidak kira kaum dan agama. Agensi kerajaan ditubuhkan supaya lebih giat memberi pinjaman dan nasihat untuk golongan peniaga Bumiputera tetapi tidak harus membenarkan mereka mengaut projek kerajaan melalui amalan tidak telus, tidak halal dan tidak adil. Inilah masanya untuk menyahut cabaran globalisasi sebelum terlambat.

Jika nak pandai, kita harus mengajar memancing dan bukan memberi hasil tangkapan beribu-ribu ikan. DEB berpotensi memberi tender projek kerajaan secara membuta-tuli kepada mereka yang tidak mampu mengendali projeknya bagaikan menjadi penjaga tol yang mengaut kekayaan secara menghulur tangan tanpa sebarang kerja dan usaha istimewa. Ini adalah tidak halal dan tidak menggalakkan pembangunan Malaysia. DEB menjelaskan semua yang nampaknya wajar dan saksama tidak mengira kaum dan darjat, tapi hakikatnya kita semua tahu. Sehingga sekarang, kita sering dikaburi dengan lakonan pihak tertentu untuk menutup malu dan tindakan tidak halal.

Salah satu bukti kelemahan DEB adalah kemunculan DPN, iaitu Dasar Penbangunan Negara. DPN merupakan kesinambungan DEB yang mewariskan ciri-ciri utama DEB.